Jamye Waxman is a smart and lovely woman who is taking the sex world by storm. In her insightful, intelligent guide to, ahem, enjoying your own company, readers will find the down and dirty details of anatomy, pep talks on why masturbation is important and some all important techniqes that will get you over the edge.  The illustrations are fantastic (and fun) and the whole tone of the book is one of encouragement, not competition.  Getting Off is a great choice for anyone beginning a journey of self-exploration.