If you know anything at all about G-Spots and Female Ejaculation, you probably have Deborah Sundahl to thank for it.  Deborah is the driving force behind making the joys of the G-Spot well known in North America and making this special, sacred spot accessible to all.  Between her classic book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot and her DVDs including How To Female Ejaculate and Female Ejaculation for Couples, and now, her visit to Toronto to lead a workshop on finding your G-spot and experiencing female ejaculation, the plethora of information this woman is responsible for putting out into the universe is a fantastic gift.

See Deborah in Toronto on October 7th.  For more information and to pre-register, click here.

1) What got you so interested in exploring the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation?

I produced, wrote and hosted the very first commercial video on female ejaculation in 1993 (How To Female Ejaculate ). Before this time, the subject was completely and utterly silenced. It was so taboo, in fact, that you could see people’s faces shrink in disgust as they stepped away from you.  Being a feminist, I was trained in uncovering misconceptions and omissions around the female body. This deep silence around female ejaculation said to me that there must be something incredibly amazing about the G-spot and its lovely fountain. So, I rolled up my sleeves and got to work.

2) Why would you encourage other women to explore this part of their anatomy and sexuality?

Every woman has a G-spot, and it is easily accessible. Every woman can ejaculate because it is our inherent, ultra-feminine nature and anatomical ability to do so. Sexuality is the guidepost to who we are on a deep level, as well as a playful and happy expression that highly benefits our relationship with ourselves and with our partner(s). The more we know about our sexuality, the more pleasure we can have in every aspect of our lives.

3) What can people who attend this workshop expect to learn?

Every single person who attends the workshop will walk away with a working knowledge of where their G-spot is located, what the state of its sensitivity is, and how to make it more sensitive. They will understand the many facets of ejaculating and where they are at with being able to ejaculate. They will identify their personal  ”next-step” in learning how to ejaculate. And there is more! Because you can literally SEE the G-spot with the naked eye, men and women will be able to finally put to rest the question ‘where is it located’ and get down to the business of starting to enjoy the G-spot’s unique pleasures. Now that is progress!

4)  What led you to start teaching workshops?

I strongly feel it is my mission in life to get every woman in the western world to learn how to ejaculate. Why? No part of a woman’s sexuality should be silenced or so severely misunderstood.  Quality of life and relationships suffer, including physical health. I love celebrations, and learning to ejaculate is a joyful event! My workshops teach the techniques and information in my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot.

5) What draws you to work in sexual education and health?

People are shedding their body phobias and sexuality ignorance that we inherited culturally from previous generations. In the doing, they are hungry for knowledge. Since I have immersed myself in every single aspect of female sexuality since 1981, I have much to offer people in their process of erotic self-discovery and restoration of their sexual-physical health and well-being. I strongly feel this is the best ‘work’ a person could do for themselves, and I want to support that journey to sexual fitness.

6) Do you have a website? A blog? A place where I can learn more about you?

People just starting their process of sexual discovery often have questions for me, so I am making myself available for one-hour consultations in Toronto while I am visiting on October 6-8. Please e-mail me through my website, www.deborahsundahl.com.  For more information about me, see my publicity or bio pages on my website, or watch one of my videos on female ejaculation.

7)  What’s something interesting about your career that I might not know?

Was part of the “Bloom in Women’s Erotica” that started in the early 1980’s - a political movement of women speaking out for the first time about their sexual needs, desires and pleasure. This movement has grown into the huge participation that we see today of women (and couples) taking a healthy interest in their sexuality - including freely shopping for their needs at women-owned erotica stores!

How much do we love Erika Lust? Not only is she the smart cookie behind Five Hot Stories for Her and Barcelona Sex Project, she’s now working on a new flick that is sure to be another stunner.  Check out this short (that will be a part of a larger project) called “Handcuffs”

One of Good For Her’s very favourite Feminist Porn Award winners for 2009 was Courtney Trouble’s Roulette. This movie proves that it is possible to show hot queer sex with couples with searing chemistry and sizzling diversity.  Trouble is back at it, and Good For Her is excited to present the Canadian launch party for her second feature, Nostalgia.

Come watch as Trouble and Pepper are at home fooling around and watching porn, only to find that all of their favorite classic titles have been queered. Join them as they watch the mythical creatures, fresh faced angels, and tattooed misfits of the underground fuck, suck, and hold hands all the way to hell… or is this heaven? Inspired by classic porn that defined the genre, NoFauxxx.Com creator Courtney Trouble has twisted the past into the future of alternative queer porn. Step behind the queer door for a sneak peek of one of 2009’s new classics.

This evening will feature a screening of a scene from Nostalgia, saucy burlesque from Ceci Myplaymate, the hunks of Boylesque TO, a queer punk soundtrack to makeout to after, and RAFFLES GALORE! Including:
- 3 year-long memberships to NoFauxxx.com! (Trouble’s award winning website!)
- Copies of “Nostalgia” and “Roulette”
- Sexy Swag from Good For Her!
All money raised benefits The 2010 Feminist Porn Awards!

Wednesday, September 23, Gladstone Hotel Melody Bar (1214 Queen Street West).  7:30 to 10:30pm.

FREE!

Good For Her hosts more sexuality workshops than anywhere else in Canada, and we have some mighty talent behind these informative and lively adult education seminars.  We’ll be taking a moment to profile some of these amazingly smart and sexy facilitators, and for our first installment, we are talking with the very kinky and very wise Carrie Gray.  In addition to running Aslan Leather, Carrie teaches workshops that  focus heavily on each individual getting as much practice as possible in a workshop format and you are guaranteed to learn something new, whether you are an experienced practitioner or new to the delicious world of kink and fetish.   For Fall 2009, Carrie is teaching Fun With Floggers @ The Aslan Studio, Kink 101, Kink 201: Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down! and Playing with Dominance and Submission.

How, why and when did you start teaching workshops?

In 1997 I was asked to teach a course for the queer exchange community education project presented by the 519 Church Street Community Centre, so I put together a six week course called Communicating Desire. The course topics covered a variety of sexual landscapes that included role-play, sex toys, playing with dominance and submission, pornography and communicating sexual desires and fantasies with confidence. The course experience and the enthusiasm from the participants really gave me the confidence to teach more workshops.

Can you tell me a bit about why you are passionate about your workshop topics?

I teach from experience I have been an active player for almost 20 years and used my first strap on even earlier. All my workshop topics come from a desire to give my participants confidence to partake in whatever type of sex play that interests them, because the biggest hurdle to realizing ones sexual desires and fantasies is a lack of confidence and trust.

What can people who attend your workshops expect?

A  safe open environment where the discussion is informative, fun and sexy. I like to call my workshops Play Shops because I incorporate a lot of demos to teach practical skills with the attendees as participants. Teaching from personal experience and by example I encourage them to explore  their topics of interest during the class so that I can guide them to a place of confidence and understanding.

Do you have a website? A blog? A place where I can learn more about you?
http://www.ASLANLeather.com is my company website.   I am also on Facebook, MySpace and Twitter.

What’s something interesting about your career that I might not know?

I was the only guest on the Mike Bullard show to appear on three separate episodes and I got to tie him up with a bondage belt and put a muffler over his mouth on national television.